Whew! Safe here in Tulsa after a tornado originated very close to my home and touched down near friends last night in Broken Arrow. This weather is scary and exhausting.
Last week was a rough one for those of us living in Oklahoma. Depending on where in Oklahoma you were life was a little more fragile but emotions and grief were high no matter where you were. We all know the risk that comes with living in this part of the country. However, we also become a little numb to the warnings after years of getting in our closets. The tornado drills at schools start at a very young age. We are trained early to file ourselves into the hallways away from the windows, to get as close to the center of the structure as possible and then to curl up into a little ball and place our hands over our heads and then wait. We are instructed to locate the safest room in the house. In my case that room has typically been a closet. Even though we follow the safety protocols that have been drilled into us since elementary school most of us do so expecting to come out of the closet at the end of the storm to learn the tornado passed through without insult or injury to anyone. The Moore Tornado last week put all of this training into perspective as well as stripped away the numbness that had built up over the years and left most of us raw and exposed to the emotions that lay in the wake of the devastation.
So, whether it was tears of sadness and pain from losing precious lives or whether it was tears of amazement in awe of the generosity and miraculous resolve of the human spirit, tears were shed. As if the barometric pressure changes weren't enough for the migrainuers living in Oklahoma the past few weeks the outburst of tears and strong emotions were a problem as well. The knowledge that a good hard cry will most likely precipitate a migraine attack prevents me from allowing myself a good hard cry. When I feel the tears begin to swell I quickly distract my brain and gather my emotions to become this stoic little robot the migraines have created. My heart is extremely heavy on the inside but in no way shape or form can I allow myself to relax and let the tears turn into an uncontrolled cry.
Why would crying cause a migraine?
I believe, along with several scientist that it is worth looking further into for some answers. There is not much in the literature on crying being a precipitating factor for migraines. In an attempt to examine the role of crying as a trigger these scientists enrolled 163 migrainuers in their study. Crying was identified as a trigger by 55% of participants. In this study the only other triggers listed greater than crying were stress, anxiety, and menstrual periods. These scientists concluded that since the physiology of crying is not well documented or understood, but it seems to be a migraine trigger, crying warrants further research.
Here are some of my hypotheses with regards to why crying may trigger migraines:
1. Intense emotions start the process. This stressful state may be enough on its own to be a trigger.
2. Physiologically there is an increase in pulse and respirations, muscles in the head, face, and neck become tense. This tension may irritate the trigeminal nerve which is linked to migraines.
3. The tears themselves may contribute to water loss and hence have a dehydrating effect.
4. Crying causes facial and sinus congestion which is a trigger for many a migrainuer.
Typically, I like to present solutions on this blog. I am not sure we can always stave off a good cry and maybe you could try hydrating if you can't hold back the tears. So, my solution to my tears and tornados is contributing to the rebuilding of the areas devastated by last weeks storms. If you haven't already contributed here are some links that might be helpful:
1. Lifechurch.tv has ways to help either through donations or volunteer on their site
2. Donate to the United Way Oklahoma Tornado Relief
3. Volunteer Opportunities on OKStrong
4. Donate to OKStrong
5. Also, participating Starbucks will be taking donations this week for OKStrong in exchange for a free cup of coffee!
Prayers to all those that have suffered as a result of this storm. If you can handle some tears my friend Lisa lost her brother last week in Moore and the rescue worker who found his body was her angel through this tragedy. Here is a link to their story: http://newsok.com/article/3833849.
So, whether it was tears of sadness and pain from losing precious lives or whether it was tears of amazement in awe of the generosity and miraculous resolve of the human spirit, tears were shed. As if the barometric pressure changes weren't enough for the migrainuers living in Oklahoma the past few weeks the outburst of tears and strong emotions were a problem as well. The knowledge that a good hard cry will most likely precipitate a migraine attack prevents me from allowing myself a good hard cry. When I feel the tears begin to swell I quickly distract my brain and gather my emotions to become this stoic little robot the migraines have created. My heart is extremely heavy on the inside but in no way shape or form can I allow myself to relax and let the tears turn into an uncontrolled cry.
Why would crying cause a migraine?
I believe, along with several scientist that it is worth looking further into for some answers. There is not much in the literature on crying being a precipitating factor for migraines. In an attempt to examine the role of crying as a trigger these scientists enrolled 163 migrainuers in their study. Crying was identified as a trigger by 55% of participants. In this study the only other triggers listed greater than crying were stress, anxiety, and menstrual periods. These scientists concluded that since the physiology of crying is not well documented or understood, but it seems to be a migraine trigger, crying warrants further research.
Here are some of my hypotheses with regards to why crying may trigger migraines:
1. Intense emotions start the process. This stressful state may be enough on its own to be a trigger.
2. Physiologically there is an increase in pulse and respirations, muscles in the head, face, and neck become tense. This tension may irritate the trigeminal nerve which is linked to migraines.
3. The tears themselves may contribute to water loss and hence have a dehydrating effect.
4. Crying causes facial and sinus congestion which is a trigger for many a migrainuer.
Typically, I like to present solutions on this blog. I am not sure we can always stave off a good cry and maybe you could try hydrating if you can't hold back the tears. So, my solution to my tears and tornados is contributing to the rebuilding of the areas devastated by last weeks storms. If you haven't already contributed here are some links that might be helpful:
1. Lifechurch.tv has ways to help either through donations or volunteer on their site
2. Donate to the United Way Oklahoma Tornado Relief
3. Volunteer Opportunities on OKStrong
4. Donate to OKStrong
5. Also, participating Starbucks will be taking donations this week for OKStrong in exchange for a free cup of coffee!
Prayers to all those that have suffered as a result of this storm. If you can handle some tears my friend Lisa lost her brother last week in Moore and the rescue worker who found his body was her angel through this tragedy. Here is a link to their story: http://newsok.com/article/3833849.